July 24, 2024

Sexual Health testing

Why is it important?

Sexual Health testing

Regular and comprehensive Sexual Health Screening should be incorporated into a healthy sex life. However, for many people, contemplating a sexual health screening fills them with anxiety, shame and embarrassment. Some women like to think of it similar as the other preventative health testing women can have - a mammogram for breast cancer, Pap smear for cervical health, blood checks for cholesterol levels- an STI test isn't so different as it's all designed to help save your health and your life.

Many STIs are not symptomatic, and can lie within the body for years without you being aware. Long term health impacts of untreated STIs can vary, but women's reproductive health is far more likely to be impacted by untreated STIs. We know from supporting many Women Partners clients to take control of their sexual health that it is an empowering step in the healing journey of betrayal and infidelity.

Understanding the risk factors for STI/HIV transmission is very important as your sexual health is only as safe as your sexual health partner's sex practices. Many Women Partners clients have often felt that their sexual health was safe as they believed they were in a long-term, monogamous relationship. So the added complexity and betrayal of potentially being at risk of a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) or HIV is extraordinarily overwhelming. Within the complexities of infidelity and betrayal, having your own sexual health testing is often the only way of being certain your sexual health is safe.

Some of the common STIs in NSW include chlamydia and gonorrhoea but syphilis and monkeypox are increasing in transmission rates, particularly in Men who have Sex with Men. Learn more about Syphilis here, and Monkey Pox you can learn more here. MonkeyPox is a new emerging STI that is currently most present in the communities of Men who have Sex with Men, and vaccinations are available for their sexual partners. Find out whether you may be at risk of Mpox, and where to get vaccinated click here. NSW Health's Play Safe website have released a comprehensive website discussing the most common STIs, including whether they are symptomatic or not, and where to get tested. More information can be found here, including a 30 second quiz to identify if you may be at risk of an STI transmission.

Let's talk about what STI testing includes, so that you can anticipate what may be asked of you, and to ensure you have received comprehensive STI/HIV testing.

  • Blood tests are required for HIV, syphilis, Hepatitis B and C
  • Urine tests are required for Chlamydia and gonorrhoea
  • Swabs can occur depending on site of sexual acts       

More information can be found here: What tests do I need? - STI Testing and Prevention - Stay STI Free

How does a GP or Sexual Heath Practitioners work out what type of test I need? 

Medical professionals will need to ask you questions to understand the potential STIs or HIV that you may have been exposed to, which informs them as to which tests to prescribe for you. These questions may feel embarrassing or invasive, but they are designed to ensure you receive comprehensive Sexual Health testing.

Questions can include: 

  • Are you sexually active?
  • What is the gender identity of the person/people you have had sex with?
  • Do you have oral sex, vaginal sex and/or anal sex?
  • What medication do you take?
  • Do you have any symptoms that you are concerned about?
  • When was the last time you had sex?
  • Have you ever been diagnosed with (or thought you had) an STI?
  • Have you had a new partner recently?
  • Do you use any contraception/condoms?

Find out more here: Find the right STI testing service for you - Play Safe

Women Partners are here to support you through the journey of taking back control of your Sexual Health from knowing from where to get tested including at women’s health centres, publicly funded sexual health clinics and at your GP. Sometimes there can be barriers to women accessing sexual health testing and Women Partners have found that saying "My male partner is having sex with other men, as well as me, and I believe I may be at risk of STI/HIV transmission and would like a comprehensive Sexual Health test as a result" can reduce these barriers. When ringing a publicly funded Sexual Health clinic, the clinician will do a brief assessment over the phone, including asking questions about sexual practices, risk categories, and whether you have symptoms,  so it is important to identify as a sexual partner of a Man who has Sex with Men to support your eligibility for service provision.

Contact Women Partners for support regarding Sexual Health support. Read here for more information on HIV risks, transmission pathways and STI/HIV testing options in NSW.

Testimonials

What people say about their experience

Our client feedback is overwhelmingly positive, with 96% of women reporting increased self-esteem and ability to make decisions.

Maria

“It’s been a life saver, literally”

I have completely unloaded onto the counsellor and she wasn’t shocked. I’ve been able to understand what’s happened to my husband and work out what it means for me and the children. It’s been a life saver, literally.

Justine

“I’ve felt very alone – until I came here”

The counsellor really understands. No one else seems to ‘get it’ and I’ve felt very alone – until I came here.

Ellen

“I can really say it all aloud”

He’s my best friend and a wonderful father. He wants to stay for now as long as he can explore his feelings for men. I’m finding all that really hard. The counsellor’s been the only person I can really say it all aloud to…

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OUR PURPOSE

We provide support
to over 250 women partners every year

Women Partners purpose is to help women navigate the unexpected myriad of emotions which often present having discovered their relationship was not what they thought. Helping to support the sexual health and healing journey for women and their families, Women Partners focus is to help empower women to travel their own path forward however that may look.

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